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is this how nice guys think sex works?

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ssj3vegeta 3 days ago#1
-Gavirulax- 3 days ago#2
Did it ever work for you Vegy?
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ssj3vegeta 3 days ago#3
joe40001 3 days ago#4
I think this is trolling but if not it really shows a lack of understanding.
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Cleo_II 3 days ago#5
Lmao. So true.
pkmnlord 3 days ago#6
It'd be pretty cool if sex worked like that tbh.
littlebro07 3 days ago#7
PiOverlord 3 days ago#8
Haha.
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V-E-G-Y- 3 days ago#9
the_cajun88 3 days ago#10
Good boy points get you chicken tendies, not sex IIRC.
Kanaya413 3 days ago#11
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICf***ING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(
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itachi15243 3 days ago#12
The way some of them act, I wouldn't be surprised
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It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol
D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol


someone already has you covered

qaRxeQH
itachi15243 3 days ago#16
Can someone please do a "How Hillary thinks elections work" one? Maybe a "Times ran for president" on the top of the card or something?

And a Trump one: "How Trump thinks solving problems works" with a "days spent golfing" card or something like that
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itachi15243 posted...
Can someone please do a "How Hillary thinks elections work" one? Maybe a "Times ran for president" on the top of the card or something?

And a Trump one: "How Trump thinks solving problems works" with a "days spent golfing" card or something like that


lol these are both pretty good.
Kanaya413 3 days ago#18
Swagnificent119 posted...
D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol


someone already has you covered

qaRxeQH

LMFAO OH MY GOD
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ArchiePeck 3 days ago#20
This certainly seems to be how many "nice guys" on CE think dating is supposed to work...
ssj3vegeta_ 3 days ago#21
Kolibri X 3 days ago#22
Women dont respect being respected.
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cjsdowg 3 days ago#23
Like in the past five years for some reason nice guys have been come the target for all this hate, I don't get it.
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Turtlebread 3 days ago#24
Nice guys bring it on themselves
ArchiePeck 3 days ago#26
cjsdowg posted...
Like in the past five years for some reason nice guys have been come the target for all this hate, I don't get it.


Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.
ssj3vegeta 2 days ago#27
LittleRoyal 2 days ago#28
Swagnificent119 posted...
D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol


someone already has you covered

qaRxeQH

My grandma told me that's how it'll work for me :( 

But I'm Incel
I-I really needed this~~
Time to stomp some faces!!!
Gamer99z 2 days ago#29
Kanaya413 posted...
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICf***ING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(

Are you having a stroke?
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cjsdowg 2 days ago#30
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.



When did this become what people think nice people are ?
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ssj3vegeta 2 days ago#31
@Kanaya413 posted...
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICf***ING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(

but...dey are dead :(
Kanaya413 2 days ago#32
@ssj3vegeta posted...
@Kanaya413 posted...
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICf***ING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(

but...dey are dead :(

Not in every universe shhhhhh
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ssj3vegeta_ 2 days ago#33
Kanaya413 2 days ago#34
Gamer99z posted...
Kanaya413 posted...
OMFF IT REALLY WAS YHE MORTY PICTURE ICf***ING NEW IT LMFAO
Wis h I had a card for a,vindicators adventure ;(

Are you having a stroke?

Yes
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pkmnlord 2 days ago#35
cjsdowg posted...
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.

When did this become what people think nice people are ?

The whole nice guy vs. "nice guy" debacle has been a thing for way longer than it ever should be, I'm talking like the past 7 years, maybe 8. People keep asking the same question "why don't girls like me I'm a nice guy" and the answer is usually given, which is simple "if you're only being nice in order to goad the girl into having sex with you, then you're being dishonest on top of the fact that no matter how nice you are to someone, at no point are they obligated to give you sex for any reason whatsoever, no matter how long you've been consistently there for them or whatever you feel your accomplishments are".

But yet people keep asking why it's a thing. Like, it's nowhere near as deep as you think, it's pretty set in stone.
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joe40001 2 days ago#36
pkmnlord posted...
cjsdowg posted...
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.

When did this become what people think nice people are ?

The whole nice guy vs. "nice guy" debacle has been a thing for way longer than it ever should be, I'm talking like the past 7 years, maybe 8. People keep asking the same question "why don't girls like me I'm a nice guy" and the answer is usually given, which is simple "if you're only being nice in order to goad the girl into having sex with you, then you're being dishonest on top of the fact that no matter how nice you are to someone, at no point are they obligated to give you sex for any reason whatsoever, no matter how long you've been consistently there for them or whatever you feel your accomplishments are".

But yet people keep asking why it's a thing. Like, it's nowhere near as deep as you think, it's pretty set in stone.


You really don't get what is going on.

I'm so tired of strawmaning "neckbeard nice guys"
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MutantJohn 2 days ago#38
joe40001 posted...
pkmnlord posted...
cjsdowg posted...
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.

When did this become what people think nice people are ?

The whole nice guy vs. "nice guy" debacle has been a thing for way longer than it ever should be, I'm talking like the past 7 years, maybe 8. People keep asking the same question "why don't girls like me I'm a nice guy" and the answer is usually given, which is simple "if you're only being nice in order to goad the girl into having sex with you, then you're being dishonest on top of the fact that no matter how nice you are to someone, at no point are they obligated to give you sex for any reason whatsoever, no matter how long you've been consistently there for them or whatever you feel your accomplishments are".

But yet people keep asking why it's a thing. Like, it's nowhere near as deep as you think, it's pretty set in stone.


You really don't get what is going on.

I'm so tired of strawmaning "neckbeard nice guys"

It's not really strawmanning, it's just a thing that exists, man.

There's weird dudes on the internet who are vocal.
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joe40001 2 days ago#39
MutantJohn posted...
joe40001 posted...
pkmnlord posted...
cjsdowg posted...
ArchiePeck posted...

Because there's a horrible disingenuous entitlement issue to the majority of people that label themselves as "nice guys". They bitterly resent women for not having sex with them and label them "sluts" for having normal sex lives that just happen to involve people that aren't them.

When did this become what people think nice people are ?

The whole nice guy vs. "nice guy" debacle has been a thing for way longer than it ever should be, I'm talking like the past 7 years, maybe 8. People keep asking the same question "why don't girls like me I'm a nice guy" and the answer is usually given, which is simple "if you're only being nice in order to goad the girl into having sex with you, then you're being dishonest on top of the fact that no matter how nice you are to someone, at no point are they obligated to give you sex for any reason whatsoever, no matter how long you've been consistently there for them or whatever you feel your accomplishments are".

But yet people keep asking why it's a thing. Like, it's nowhere near as deep as you think, it's pretty set in stone.


You really don't get what is going on.

I'm so tired of strawmaning "neckbeard nice guys"

It's not really strawmanning, it's just a thing that exists, man.

There's weird dudes on the internet who are vocal.


Yeah but people make 0 effort to understand what these people really are like and just get off on mocking them.
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joe40001 posted...
people make 0 effort to understand what these people really are like

What are they really like?
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cjsdowg 2 days ago#41
MutantJohn posted...

It's not really strawmanning, it's just a thing that exists, man.

There's weird dudes on the internet who are vocal.


A lot of people are looking for someone just in general to act like these people only act that way for booty is the a strawman. These people act like nice manner than get rejected time after time. And when they say hey what the hell is going on here. People say they are just in it for sex.
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Millennials 2 days ago#42
I was friends with this chick for almost 15 years with very little interest in her romantically/sexually aside from the latent, intrusive thoughts many people have about someone they spend a lot of time around. We hung out almost every day, knew all of each other's family members, etc. We were close and tbh she is still the best friend I've ever had, even accounting for how it ended.

We were friends since before puberty, before we even knew what sex was. We were our only friends of the opposite sex when we were still in the "ew boys/girls" phase of life. That's how far back the friendship went but it never went to that "sibling-zone" some people try to trap someone in to super, duper ensure that nothing would ever happen.

So, she was sexually active years before I was. She was having sex when she was 14 while I didn't start having sex until I was 19. I never judged her or tried to interfere in that aspect of her life, even if she asked me to. I just really didn't care about it. She had sex with a lot of dudes rather indiscriminately but like I said, it was none of my business. My problem was that she tried to make it my business. She would always talk about how she didn't even like that guy, he was so ugly and annoying, yet she still f***ed him and would agonize over why she did that. This is not one specific dude but probably a dozen or so before high school ended. I would just let her vent or ask vague, light questions about why she would do it but never say anything judgmental or hostile.

She ended up getting addicted to painkillers when she was 18 after she was in an accident. This spiraled out of control and she ended up doing any drug she could get her hands on, something that only exacerbated her already adventurous sex life. We were still close friends but not as close because to be honest, she was difficult to be around. I cared about her a lot and didn't want to see someone putting themselves and other people through that. 

When we were 22, she came to me one night after a really bad bender where she ended up getting smacked around by some guy and he tried to rape her and all this craziness. We went to the police and the hospital and she ultimately got help and was clean for a while.

She was clean for about a year when she started things up again. At first it was just weed, but she would f*** dudes just for sharing a joint with her. She would hang out with really sketchy people, too. Before long she was stealing s*** to get drugs.

She got herself cleaned up again and really settled down. She actually started calling herself "boring" but was really just being normal, occasionally getting drunk but holding the rest of life down. So we were in each other's lives a lot more and things were fine. One night at a party, some chick asked if we were together. We both were like, "um, no" and the lady laughed and asked why not. I just complimented her and said that I didn't see her like that. She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me."

So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross s*** she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it f***ing hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the s*** out of me.
Millennials 2 days ago#43
I tried to internalize all of it and jokingly changed the subject but I was pretty buzzed at that point and I guess wasn't doing too good of a job. She was also drunk and yelled out, "So you're really mad that I never wanted to f*** you?" I just kinda blinkeyeswhat.gif'd her and she started talking about how that was evidence that I was immature and that I sucked with women because I felt entitled. I blew up and lost at it that point, reminding her of how much objectively better I was than most of the dudes she f***ed and she was like, "okay so do you think making me feel like a slut is going to help change my mind?" I told her I didn't want to ever and certainly not at that point change her mind and convince her to have sex with me. She was like, "good because you're not good enough." I reminded her of all the times I was there for her and how I was good enough to pick up the pieces of her s***tered life more times than I should've. She said didn't matter because of that because my Kroger reward card wouldn't work on her coochy.

Lots of people were cheering her on and I just said to hell with her and left. the next day, she posted on facebook about how I humiliated her and made her feel like 15 years of friendship was a waste and that I was just being nice to her to get in her pants. Lots of our mutual friends took her side and got mad at me. Her little brother messaged me and said I really hurt her and that if I tried to talk to her again, he would kill me. I got lumped in with the actual "fake nice guys" and it really f***ing pissed me off. Had it not been for moving, I'd probably still have that reputation with a lot of people.

I know there are a lot of those types but it made me wonder how many other guys were like me, actually just normal guys who got caught up with the wrong type of girl and ended up with an unfair reputation.
Swagnificent119 posted...
D-Lo_BrownTown posted...
It's kind of like how women think just because they put out, it means I'm going to marry them.

lol


someone already has you covered

qaRxeQH

LOL

It'd be a little funnier if it just said "women" instead though

Or maybe even "basic b****es"
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joe40001 2 days ago#45
Millennials posted...
I tried to internalize all of it and jokingly changed the subject but I was pretty buzzed at that point and I guess wasn't doing too good of a job. She was also drunk and yelled out, "So you're really mad that I never wanted to f*** you?" I just kinda blinkeyeswhat.gif'd her and she started talking about how that was evidence that I was immature and that I sucked with women because I felt entitled. I blew up and lost at it that point, reminding her of how much objectively better I was than most of the dudes she f***ed and she was like, "okay so do you think making me feel like a slut is going to help change my mind?" I told her I didn't want to ever and certainly not at that point change her mind and convince her to have sex with me. She was like, "good because you're not good enough." I reminded her of all the times I was there for her and how I was good enough to pick up the pieces of her s***tered life more times than I should've. She said didn't matter because of that because my Kroger reward card wouldn't work on her coochy.

Lots of people were cheering her on and I just said to hell with her and left. the next day, she posted on facebook about how I humiliated her and made her feel like 15 years of friendship was a waste and that I was just being nice to her to get in her pants. Lots of our mutual friends took her side and got mad at me. Her little brother messaged me and said I really hurt her and that if I tried to talk to her again, he would kill me. I got lumped in with the actual "fake nice guys" and it really f***ing pissed me off. Had it not been for moving, I'd probably still have that reputation with a lot of people.

I know there are a lot of those types but it made me wonder how many other guys were like me, actually just normal guys who got caught up with the wrong type of girl and ended up with an unfair reputation.


This guy f***ing gets it.

There is this gross twisted thing where people do not look at situations like this with any intellectual scrutiny, a guy is at all bitter towards a woman's treatment? He's an entitled perverted psycho, nevermind at all how he has acted his entire life.

You dare have the nerve to get upset when somebody calls you "not good enough" when compared against abusive people who get people hooked on drugs? Not acceptable.

The problem is the absolutely glee people take in villifying any guy who is bitter and has tried to be a "nice-guy" and has not had romantic success because of it. And your case isn't really even that but still jesus she sounds horrible. 

And it's disgusting how blind the world can be to s*** like that.
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MutantJohn 2 days ago#46
joe, you're definitely 100% projecting lol.

Millenials, that f***ing sucks, dude. I'm sorry but hos is hos is hos.
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Banjo2553 2 days ago#47
On this whole "nice guys" thing, I think they should really be called one thing since it does unfairly lump them in with actual nice guys (who just do nice things because it's the right thing to do)...

Just call them f***boys. They're literally the same thing.
joe40001 1 day ago#48
MutantJohn posted...
joe, you're definitely 100% projecting lol.

Millenials, that f***ing sucks, dude. I'm sorry but hos is hos is hos.


I'm not projecting, that is what he said and I was agreeing with him.

Look at the comments of the imgur post. It's tons of people strawmanning entitled "nice guys" without ever considering there might be a lot more going on that they are simply dismissing out of convenience. 

I really think it stems from the heavily male demographics of the internet and so until we are savvy to it, guys on the internet will instinctively react in a way that distances themself from guys they wouldn't want to be compared to.

People might not remember but for a while people would white-knight and nobody would call them out because as a culture we weren't savvy enough to have a name for what they were doing so such people were able to pretend that it was an act of sincere decency when they white-knighted.
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cjsdowg 1 day ago#49
joe40001 posted...

I'm not projecting, that is what he said and I was agreeing with him.



Honestly I have to agree with this, I was a nice guy. Nice just because that was who I am, not because I wanted to get some. It took me until getting into college to really start having real relationships. And I mean before that if I was nice to someone and then they reject me while b****ing about the guy who hits them. Me asking why not me doesn't mean that I was just in it for sex. It just means that most people think they should be held in higher standing then an a******. 

Are there guys who claim to be nice who are just in it for the tang, yeah. But that can cover a great number of lies. A guy might claim to be rich just to get some. I don't see people saying. " See this rich guys make me so mad.. place meme here".
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Millennials posted...
She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me."

So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross s*** she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it f***ing hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the s*** out of me.

I was with you until this
This just screams of insecurity
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    joe40001 1 day ago#51
    KarmaMuffin posted...
    Millennials posted...
    She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me."

    So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross s*** she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it f***ing hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the s*** out of me.

    I was with you until this
    This just screams of insecurity


    It screams of insecurity to not like it when somebody you thought was your friend who routinely spends time with horrible people says "you are beneath her standards".?

    Let's take sex/romance out of this. If a somebody you thought was a good friend said after years of you helping them out that "you are worse than drug addicted abusive a******s" that wouldn't bother you?
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    MutantJohn 1 day ago#52
    I think there's a difference between being a nice person and being a nice guy. I think it's important not to conflate the two concepts.
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    joe40001 1 day ago#53
    MutantJohn posted...
    I think there's a difference between being a nice person and being a nice guy. I think it's important not to conflate the two concepts.

    There isn't much of a difference unless by nice guy you mean "nice guy" (with airquotes) which has come to mean what white knight types like to characterize incels as.
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    joe40001 posted...
    It screams of insecurity to not like it when somebody you thought was your friend who routinely spends time with horrible people says "you are beneath her standards".?

    No, it screams of insecurity to let "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother you. 
    I have plenty of friends who if they were of the right sex, I still wouldn't want to f*** them because of their personality. There's nothing wrong with that, doesn't mean anything other than the two of you aren't compatible as lovers while being great friends.

    Who knows what she meant by everything after that question. She could be telling the truth, she could be lying, she could have been too drunk to properly explain herself, she might think he's boring that at least the druggies were exciting, she might have thought that'd spare his feelings better than "you're ugly," or she might think of him too much like a brother to want a sexual relationship... idfk and idc. I won't defend her on that part.
    What I will say is that letting the comment "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother him is insecurity playing up and you gain nothing by pushing it further (as you can see that he still thinks she's the best friend he's ever had and unfortunately they're not friends anymore). Should've just dropped it because it's not like he wanted to bang her anyway so why bring that up?
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    cjsdowg 1 day ago#56
    KarmaMuffin posted...

    Who knows what she meant by everything after that question. She could be telling the truth, she could be lying, she could have been too drunk to properly explain herself, she might think he's boring that at least the druggies were exciting, she might have thought that'd spare his feelings better than "you're ugly," or she might think of him too much like a brother to want a sexual relationship... idfk and idc. I won't defend her on that part.
    What I will say is that letting the comment "I'd never go for a guy like you" bother him is insecurity playing up and you gain nothing by pushing it further (as you can see that he still thinks she's the best friend he's ever had and unfortunately they're not friends anymore). Should've just dropped it because it's not like he wanted to bang her anyway so why bring that up?


    Because it is insulting, If everything he stated is true ( there is not reason to doubt him). Then that is a horrible thing to say. If criminals met her standards then someone who has her back all the time should make her standards. Then she says he is immature when she is a criminal.
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    cjsdowg posted...
    If criminals met her standards then someone who has her back all the time should make her standards.

    Not at all. This is why people make fun of "nice guys."
    KarmaMuffin posted...
    Millennials posted...
    She, however, said that she would "never go for a guy like me."

    So I was like, "Okay what is that supposed to mean?" And she was like, "just your personality and the way you dress. You're also very immature." Naturally, I was offended by that, not because I wanted to be with her or even have sex with her but because I knew all the sordid details of all the gross s*** she did with all the trashy people she did it with. She bagged some hotties but she also slummed it f***ing hardcore and basically prostituted herself, so it was just mind bogglingly offensive that I would not be good enough for her based on that. I understand not being attracted to someone and not feeling "it" but to imply there was something wrong with me just bugged the s*** out of me.

    I was with you until this
    This just screams of insecurity

    While that may or may not be true, there were still a million better ways she could have phrased her response about his personality and immaturity. That's incredibly insulting especially coming from her of all people.
    ...I guess...
    It was more curiosity than insecurity. I wasn't even insulted by her saying that, more by what was to come. If she had said, "oh, I just don't see him that way" or "he's not the guy for me," I wouldn't have given it a second thought. To say she would "never go for a guy like me" is a very open-ended testament to what she thought of me not just as a potential lover but as a person in general. "A guy like me" could've meant a lot of different things and tbh I didn't expect them to be as nonsensical as they were.
    MutantJohn 1 day ago#60
    I kind of get what KarmaMuffin is going for but I'm more on Millenials' side. Or at least, I'm able to empathize with his reaction a bit more. Fundamentally again, hos is hos is hos, man.
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    pkmnlord 1 day ago#61
    Millennials posted...
    To say she would "never go for a guy like me" is a very open-ended testament to what she thought of me not just as a potential lover but as a person in general. "A guy like me" could've meant a lot of different things and tbh I didn't expect them to be as nonsensical as they were.

    Yeah, it even works in reverse, it's like when b****es say they want to find a guy like you but you're a guy like you.
    cjsdowg 1 day ago#62
    pkmnlord posted...

    Yeah, it even works in reverse, it's like when b****es say they want to find a guy like you but you're a guy like you.


    I think that one just means you are ugly to them( I got it before) and I can see any other reasoning .
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