I think incels are shaped by the environment they grow up in. They're bullied, their parents have to tell them how important they are and how nice they are, and then they watch a bunch of movies and shit about nice guys getting the ideal girlfriend by virtue of their kind nature.
But they coast along on that "niceness" cushion and expect to be given that fantasy of an ideal woman without actually broadening their horizons or filling out their personality - they don't socialise or learn how to behave like a person, because they never got the proper experience during their formulative years. And when it becomes clear that none of the hot chicks they want to bang would even give them the time of day, they get indignant and blame the world for stomping on their precious, beloved, pure feelings.
And hey, posting online is a solitary hobby that offers some degree of socialisation - and there are more people who went through the same thing! Let's bond over some shared experiences! Congrats, you've got an incel - they've locked themselves into a smug circle jerk about how society is persecuting them, and they want to feel like they're taking back their "lost" destiny. It's a coping mechanism that strips empathy for certain people, gives them an identity to rally behind and shields them from any sort of self-reflection or betterment - because there's nothing wrong with them, it's the rest of the world who is wrong.
But no, the incels are right - it's these loose women who refuse to settle down and engage in some fuckin 50's household fetish with a guy who has a personality like a cardboard cut-out. It's fully autonomous people making a conscious, free choice to seek a partner who's appealing to their tastes that are ruining society, we should listen to these brave warriors who think that society should be controlled so that everyone gets a mate, no exceptions, no escape.
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thinking of breaking up with my bf over ssbu
JusticeWoman 7 hours ago
He mains Zero Suit Samus, and keeps beating me with her. Whenever the victory screen shows up he keeps making remarks like
"Wow, why won't you wear tight spandex as well as this girl can."
"Blonde girls are my biggest weakness." (I'm brunette.)
"Ooo those nice thighs."
"Damn, that's a whole lot of woman I want."
"If she were real, I would marry her in an instant."
I know it's just a fictional character, but having the audacity to show interest in fictional girls that have things I don't have is just grating. Like I get it, you like fit and beautiful blonde girl in tight spandex. Now shut up. Cause I'm your girlfriend. So guess what? I ended up yelling at him and told him to shut the hell up, and he keeps writing it off like he was only joking. But I'm not that stupid.
We've only been dating for a year, and he already treats me like he's getting bored and I'm not enough. I'm playing a Super Smash Bros game with him! You rarely get girlfriends like that.
I know it's a bit silly getting mad at this. I feel like I should hint about leaving him so that he'd realise how lucky he is to have me, and despite not being Zero Suit Samus, I'm the best gamer girl he could ever score in his life.
"Wow, why won't you wear tight spandex as well as this girl can."
"Blonde girls are my biggest weakness." (I'm brunette.)
"Ooo those nice thighs."
"Damn, that's a whole lot of woman I want."
"If she were real, I would marry her in an instant."
I know it's just a fictional character, but having the audacity to show interest in fictional girls that have things I don't have is just grating. Like I get it, you like fit and beautiful blonde girl in tight spandex. Now shut up. Cause I'm your girlfriend. So guess what? I ended up yelling at him and told him to shut the hell up, and he keeps writing it off like he was only joking. But I'm not that stupid.
We've only been dating for a year, and he already treats me like he's getting bored and I'm not enough. I'm playing a Super Smash Bros game with him! You rarely get girlfriends like that.
I know it's a bit silly getting mad at this. I feel like I should hint about leaving him so that he'd realise how lucky he is to have me, and despite not being Zero Suit Samus, I'm the best gamer girl he could ever score in his life.
Incels
They've brainwashed themselves in the worst way possible. It's like if you took all the worst lies to convince yourself of and decided to torture yourself with it by making it your reality. In a way they are just cucking themselves pretty hard.
Incels are people that refuse to play by the "rules" that society has dictated for dating. These "rules" are not fair to everyone. Instead of accepting that, and making small changes to better succeed, they create a false narrative (the Chad myth) as a scapegoat, and instead of putting in any actual work, they blame everything on everyone else. Because it's easier to "invent" a problem and point to that as the cause of their perceived deficit, than to self-assess and fix themselves.
This then becomes self-fulfilling prophecy. They expect failure, so they don't even try. When they do try, anything other than an instant result is complete failure.
By the current standard, I was considered a "Chad" during my active years. I went home alone ALOT. I got rejected at least 10 times for every girl I bedded. Probably more. I didn't break down crying when a girl said no, because there were 3.5 billion others to ask. She said no, that hurt, but the world isn't ending.
If I'm busy crying about someone turning me down, the next girl will see a crying little bitch, snot running down my face, whining about some shit that don't matter any way. Who the fuck is going to want that?
Incels, you create your own celibacy. You cry into your echo chambers, blame everyone else, and do nothing to fix yourself. No one is entitled to anything. Work for it. Just like the rest of us.
I feel similarly about militant feminists who thrive on angry anti-male echo chambers. They're often in the same boat in which their dating/relationship luck is in the crapper and they blame the opposite sex for not "manning up" or conforming to biased demands. If you go to any of their typical online haunts, you will see similar gender-discriminatory comments and tirades. It's just against boys and men instead.
In a sense, many angry radfems are basically the female equivalent of the male "incel".
They're just more inclined to doxxing and hate speech than rushing to threats of assault (outside of protests).
Both sides just seem like bitter after effects of widening divisive lines between the modern sexes thanks to pretentious politics and lack of mutual empathy.
"Incels" are just extremely arrogant people whose arrogance & self-absorption has led to them believing everyone else is less than them, which has caused their mentally unstable brains to believe everyone else is against them, when it's really just themselves that are to blame. Their bitterness & overall negative attitude drives people away & further puts them deeper into that "woe is me everyone sucks but me" mindset.
Incels are people that refuse to play by the "rules" that society has dictated for dating. These "rules" are not fair to everyone. Instead of accepting that, and making small changes to better succeed, they create a false narrative (the Chad myth) as a scapegoat, and instead of putting in any actual work, they blame everything on everyone else. Because it's easier to "invent" a problem and point to that as the cause of their perceived deficit, than to self-assess and fix themselves.
This then becomes self-fulfilling prophecy. They expect failure, so they don't even try. When they do try, anything other than an instant result is complete failure.
By the current standard, I was considered a "Chad" during my active years. I went home alone ALOT. I got rejected at least 10 times for every girl I bedded. Probably more. I didn't break down crying when a girl said no, because there were 3.5 billion others to ask. She said no, that hurt, but the world isn't ending.
If I'm busy crying about someone turning me down, the next girl will see a crying little bitch, snot running down my face, whining about some shit that don't matter any way. Who the fuck is going to want that?
Incels, you create your own celibacy. You cry into your echo chambers, blame everyone else, and do nothing to fix yourself. No one is entitled to anything. Work for it. Just like the rest of us.
I feel similarly about militant feminists who thrive on angry anti-male echo chambers. They're often in the same boat in which their dating/relationship luck is in the crapper and they blame the opposite sex for not "manning up" or conforming to biased demands. If you go to any of their typical online haunts, you will see similar gender-discriminatory comments and tirades. It's just against boys and men instead.
In a sense, many angry radfems are basically the female equivalent of the male "incel".
They're just more inclined to doxxing and hate speech than rushing to threats of assault (outside of protests).
Both sides just seem like bitter after effects of widening divisive lines between the modern sexes thanks to pretentious politics and lack of mutual empathy.
"Incels" are just extremely arrogant people whose arrogance & self-absorption has led to them believing everyone else is less than them, which has caused their mentally unstable brains to believe everyone else is against them, when it's really just themselves that are to blame. Their bitterness & overall negative attitude drives people away & further puts them deeper into that "woe is me everyone sucks but me" mindset.
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