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butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill18 hours ago#1
They did not seem to take it well, despite being the one that initiated a "breakup talk" (for the second time in a month)

Were saying how they were "disappointed" and felt like their time had been wasted

I can't wait for all the shit this one's gonna talk :/
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Vulgorn 18 hours ago#2
sorry about that man. sounds like it might've been for the best though.

i remember you making topics about this before and i remember reading them

but i can't remember the details.

refresher?
C_Pain 18 hours ago#3
I'm sorry to hear that. Do you feel glad to have done it?
How quaint.
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muchdran 18 hours ago#4
They?
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butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill18 hours ago#5
Vulgorn posted...
sorry about that man. sounds like it might've been for the best though.

i remember you making topics about this before and i remember reading them

but i can't remember the details.

refresher?

Things first got weird when they were BLACKOUT drunk and started flirting w my best friend. As soon as they were reminded of this they left where they were and called me to come over & talk. Thought we worked it out but things have been weird since.

They have also never had sex w anyone or hooked up in p much any capacity; the first time things escalated they asked when I had been last tested, told them I'm clean and I could get a condom anyway (this happened ONE other time where I suggested this half-seriously, then dropped it immediately), they insisted I get tested and I had no problem w that. Over several weeks this has still not happened for a variety of reasons, and that's apparently part of why they got "bitter" and flirted w my friend. Tonight, before I had broken up w them, they said my suggestion that I grab a condom was "manipulative", but did not seem intentional; I was extremely bothered that I had made someone feel this way and apologized profusely, they said it's okay i dont think youre a bad person etc etc.

Then we talked in circles for a long time, with me explaining how deeply it hurt me several weeks ago and how im not in a place right now to be a healthy partner & how i dont want to risk "trying to fix it" because that almost always fails, esp this early on. This whole time their attitude was "if it doesn't work it doesn't work, you need to do what's best for you, etc". As soon as I made it clear that I wanted to call it off, this shifted to "disappointed" and "wasted time".

I'm shook tbh
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Vulgorn 18 hours ago#6
yikes.

mind games all around.
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butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill18 hours ago#7
Vulgorn posted...
yikes.

mind games all around.

tbh I almost called them on this when they changed their shit up so suddenly but I didn't want to make it worse

This is a person I really like and want to be friends with, but it just wasn't working out romantically
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Vicious_Dios 18 hours ago#8
muchdran posted...
They?


This. Were you dating, like, saimese twins or something? <_<
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Konflikt 18 hours ago#9
Vicious_Dios posted...
muchdran posted...
They?


This. Were you dating, like, saimese twins or something? <_<


Are you 5 years old?
Vicious_Dios 18 hours ago#10
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This. Were you dating, like, saimese twins or something? <_<


Are you 5 years old?


No, I am not 5 years old. What a strange question.
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_Krave_ 18 hours ago#11
Another dude?
Am I seducing or being seduced?
SpiralDrift 18 hours ago#12
muchdran posted...
They?

Maybe he doesn't want to assume their gender.
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muchdran posted...
They?


"Non-Binary" wacko
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Konflikt 18 hours ago#14
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Are you 5 years old?


No, am I not 5 years old. What a strange question.


You must be if you've never heard someone use 'they' to refer to something singular
Vicious_Dios 18 hours ago#15
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No, am I not 5 years old. What a strange question.


You must be if you've never heard someone use 'they' to refer to something singular


Me never hearing that does not correlate my age to be five years old.
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Konflikt 18 hours ago#16
Considering it's part of everyday language, it kinda does.
butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill18 hours ago#17
Oh for fuck's sake seriously?
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juicebox4 18 hours ago#18
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No, am I not 5 years old. What a strange question.


You must be if you've never heard someone use 'they' to refer to something singular

literally zero reason not to have used "she" tho.
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catboy0_0 18 hours ago#19
butthole666 posted...
Oh for fuck's sake seriously?

that's what they get
Vicious_Dios 18 hours ago#20
Konflikt posted...
Considering it's part of everyday language, it kinda does.


That's not how age works.
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Konflikt 18 hours ago#21
Vicious_Dios posted...
Konflikt posted...
Considering it's part of everyday language, it kinda does.


That's not how age works.


Okay so you also can't comprehend English either
Vicious_Dios 18 hours ago#22
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That's not how age works.


Okay, so you also can't comprehend English either.


Much better. Don't you think? :D
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SpiralDrift 18 hours ago#23
They don't know what they just lost from their life. They should probably have given their actions toward you further thought, but apparently they didn't care enough to. Their mistake and their loss, though. You should probably just forget about them and their negative attitude since they didn't seem to care until they took it to a point where they permanently damaged your relationship with them. You should forget about them and just move on.
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Vicious_Dios 18 hours ago#24
SpiralDrift posted...
They don't know what they just lost from their life. They should probably have given their actions toward you further thought, but apparently they didn't care enough to. Their mistake and their loss, though. You should probably just forget about them and their negative attitude since they didn't seem to care until they took it to a point where they permanently damaged your relationship with them. You should forget about them and just move on.


What about those?, you forgot about those! D:
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Konflikt 18 hours ago#25
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Okay, so you also can't comprehend English either.


Much better. Don't you think? :D


That's not a replacement. "Are you a child" is a very common figure of speech used for people who don't recognize something that's commonplace or easily recognizable
masticatingman 18 hours ago#26
So was this a girl or a guy or what exactly?
I am basically am I. Well, basically.
butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill18 hours ago#27
tbh i'm primarily concerned that they will now try to paint me as some manipulative pos, when every step of the way i was constantly asking "is this okay?", "are you comfortable?", "do you want to do this?"
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butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill18 hours ago#28
Can yall fucking not setiously
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Vicious_Dios 18 hours ago#29
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Much better. Don't you think? :D


That's not a replacement. "Are you a child" is a very common figure of speech used for people who don't recognize something that's commonplace or easily recognizable


Not common enough if I've never heard nor seen it used day-by-day. LMAO
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Axiom 18 hours ago#30
masticatingman posted...
So was this a girl or a guy or what exactly?

Don't answer TC. The reaction to your use of pronouns amuses me
Vicious_Dios 18 hours ago#31
Axiom posted...
masticatingman posted...
So was this a girl or a guy or what exactly?

Don't answer TC. The reaction to your use of pronouns amuses me
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catboy0_0 18 hours ago#32
butthole666 posted...
tbh i'm primarily concerned that they will now try to paint me as some manipulative pos, when every step of the way i was constantly asking "is this okay?", "are you comfortable?", "do you want to do this?"

manipulative people generally try to make you feel unsure of yourself then blame you for things later
butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill17 hours ago#33
catboy0_0 posted...
butthole666 posted...
tbh i'm primarily concerned that they will now try to paint me as some manipulative pos, when every step of the way i was constantly asking "is this okay?", "are you comfortable?", "do you want to do this?"

manipulative people generally try to make you feel unsure of yourself then blame you for things later

I mean fwiw I do not think they are manipulative and I did not see this as a manipulative relationship on either end, that shit just caught me off guard because it was a thing of like "if you really want to right now, there's this option", and coupled with the rapid shift from bargaining to cold and seeming resentful, I'm worried
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butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill17 hours ago#34
I also feel really shit because I really fucking liked them and prior to the weirdness they were extremely supporting and understanding of my trauma & came from a similar place in life

I wish I could have made it work
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LedZeppelin 17 hours ago#35
they? them?

what exactly were you dating anyway...?
iron jojo 17 hours ago#36
Is this really a surprise?
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Konflikt 17 hours ago#37
butthole666 posted...
I also feel really shit because I really fucking liked them and prior to the weirdness they were extremely supporting and understanding of my trauma & came from a similar place in life

I wish I could have made it work


But their reaction suggested that it wouldn't have worked no matter what. In fact, they sound like a pretty awful person.
butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill17 hours ago#38
I honestly dont think they are tbh
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tamashiini 17 hours ago#39
If you're really still into this person give it a couple weeks to cool off and then see how you both feel. Could just be a misunderstanding, or maybe you're just not on the same page as far as what you both want out of your relationship
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Konflikt 16 hours ago#40
Based on what you've said in this topic they don't seem empathetic to your feelings at all
NeoBowser 16 hours ago#41
i'm sorry to hear that. it sounds like you'll be able to move forward soon and they will, after some time, deeply regret this.
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dolomedes 15 hours ago#43
butthole666 posted...
I also feel really shit because I really fucking liked them and prior to the weirdness they were extremely supporting and understanding of my trauma & came from a similar place in life
I wish I could have made it work

i know the feeling. :( 

sorry butthole
butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill15 hours ago#44
:/
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butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill9 hours ago#45
lol i do not want to go to work today
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thelovefist 9 hours ago#46
masticatingman posted...
So was this a girl or a guy or what exactly?
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Turtlebread 9 hours ago#47
this is why I don't fuck with 'theys'
TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC
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NeoBowser 8 hours ago#49
butthole666 posted...
lol i do not want to go to work today


just go. you'll feel shit at home as well.. just not earning the money. the money you wanna use in a while to go on a holiday or buy yourself some fancy fashion
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butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill8 hours ago#50
Genocet_10-325 posted...
TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC

Yeah im a troll for ignoring edgelord shitposters
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    lesidesi 8 hours ago#51
    tc probably used "they" because the gender of tc's partner has no relevance to the story
    If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the answers.
    lesidesi 8 hours ago#52
    anyway, sorry to hear
    If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the answers.
    Joenage 8 hours ago#53
    Imagine vegy making this topic
    Joenage.
    Muffinz0rz 8 hours ago#54
    Genocet_10-325 posted...
    TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC

    This 

    Great bait
    Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010)
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    thelovefist 8 hours ago#55
    Muffinz0rz posted...
    Genocet_10-325 posted...
    TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC

    This 

    Great bait

    It seems this is the most likely conclusion at this point.
    N/A
    lesidesi 8 hours ago#56
    imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you
    If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the answers.
    Konflikt 8 hours ago#57
    Muffinz0rz posted...
    Genocet_10-325 posted...
    TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC

    This 

    Great bait


    Or that he's talking about a non-binary person and didn't want to acknowledge posters who were so sheltered they've never heard "they" to refer to a singular entity
    butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill8 hours ago#58
    lesidesi posted...
    tc probably used "they" because the gender of tc's partner has no relevance to the story

    lesidesi posted...
    imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you

    Seriously. Can y'all just like make a separate thread for your stupid shit please.
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    thelovefist 8 hours ago#59
    lesidesi posted...
    imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you

    I agree with this statement. However, TC's superfluous usage of the term combined with his refusal to respond to questions clarifying the matter can reasonably be concluded as him trolling.
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    Muffinz0rz 8 hours ago#60
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    This 

    Great bait


    Or that he's talking about a non-binary person and didn't want to acknowledge posters who were so sheltered they've never heard "they" to refer to a singular entity

    Or

    Muffinz0rz posted...
    Great bait
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    butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill8 hours ago#61
    thelovefist posted...
    lesidesi posted...
    imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you

    I agree with this statement. However, TC's superfluous usage of the term combined with his refusal to respond to questions clarifying the matter can reasonably be concluded as him trolling.

    How is it fucking superfluous you clown
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    lesidesi 8 hours ago#62
    thelovefist posted...
    lesidesi posted...
    imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you

    I agree with this statement. However, TC's superfluous usage of the term combined with his refusal to respond to questions clarifying the matter can reasonably be concluded as him trolling.

    why would tc need to clarify? what relevance does it have?
    If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the answers.
    thelovefist 8 hours ago#63
    lesidesi posted...
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    I agree with this statement. However, TC's superfluous usage of the term combined with his refusal to respond to questions clarifying the matter can reasonably be concluded as him trolling.

    why would tc need to clarify? what relevance does it have?

    He doesn't need to clarify, but if you bothered to read the first part of the sentence you would understand why this makes sense.
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    butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill8 hours ago#64
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    why would tc need to clarify? what relevance does it have?

    He doesn't need to clarify, but if you bothered to read the first part of the sentence you would understand why this makes sense.

    I don't owe you shit, if you're that hot & bothered by this then fucking leave the thread.
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    Konflikt 8 hours ago#65
    Even if he clarified you guys would just bitch and throw a hissy-fit because you don't agree with the concept of non-binary gender identities. So what's the point?
    Konflikt posted...
    Even if he clarified you guys would just bitch and throw a hissy-fit because you don't agree with the concept of non-binary gender identities. So what's the point?

    I'm literally the most liberal poster on CE and I think he's trolling.
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    thelovefist 8 hours ago#67
    Konflikt posted...
    Even if he clarified you guys would just bitch and throw a hissy-fit because you don't agree with the concept of non-binary gender identities. So what's the point?

    Most people don't agree with the concept of non-binary genders, so I am not sure what point you're trying to make here.
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    chill02 8 hours ago#68
    I've seen TC talk about them for the past few months.
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    thelovefist 8 hours ago#69
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    He doesn't need to clarify, but if you bothered to read the first part of the sentence you would understand why this makes sense.

    I don't owe you shit, if you're that hot & bothered by this then fucking leave the thread.

    Yeah troll topic confirmed 100% at this point.
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    Konflikt 8 hours ago#70
    My point is that if he clarified you guys would all only read that bit and say "well you dodged a bullet because she's a wacko" and TC isn't trying to deal with that
    thelovefist 8 hours ago#71
    Konflikt posted...
    My point is that if he clarified you guys would all only read that bit and say "well you dodged a bullet because she's a wacko" and TC isn't trying to deal with that

    If that's the case I think he would have been better off just responding to the questions and then dealing with that as opposed to this mess he's made now. Of course any person would understand this which makes this topic obviously trolling.
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    moose_knuckle 8 hours ago#72
    TC has the worst luck, or trolls perennially
    butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill8 hours ago#73
    thelovefist posted...
    Konflikt posted...
    My point is that if he clarified you guys would all only read that bit and say "well you dodged a bullet because she's a wacko" and TC isn't trying to deal with that

    If that's the case I think he would have been better off just responding to the questions and then dealing with that as opposed to this mess he's made now. Of course any person would understand this which makes this topic obviously trolling.

    Yeah I made the "mess" when you won't shut the fuck up about it

    I've asked multiple times for you to stop or take it to another thread, just fucking stop
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    SpiralDrift 8 hours ago#74
    Found a picture of TC's partner.

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    moose_knuckle 7 hours ago#75
    I can't click anyone's imgur shit anymore it always says it contains errors
    thelovefist 7 hours ago#76
    butthole666 posted...
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    If that's the case I think he would have been better off just responding to the questions and then dealing with that as opposed to this mess he's made now. Of course any person would understand this which makes this topic obviously trolling.

    Yeah I made the "mess" when you won't shut the fuck up about it

    I've asked multiple times for you to stop or take it to another thread, just fucking stop

    Why are you using Rika's gimmick?
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    ChainedRedone 7 hours ago#77
    LOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.
    lesidesi 7 hours ago#78
    ChainedRedone posted...
    LOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.

    lesidesi posted...
    imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you
    If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the answers.
    ChainedRedone 7 hours ago#79
    lesidesi posted...
    ChainedRedone posted...
    LOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.

    lesidesi posted...
    imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you


    I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.
    butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill7 hours ago#80
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

    Enough. They are nb. Stop.
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    ChainedRedone 7 hours ago#81
    butthole666 posted...
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

    Enough. They are nb. Stop.


    So then why don't you use "xe"? Instead of your awkward "they" shit. Btw your wiki article talks about it being common when the person is unknown, eg. "Somebody left their umbrella here".
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    tamashiini 7 hours ago#82
    ChainedRedone posted...
    butthole666 posted...
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
    Enough. They are nb. Stop.


    So then why don't you use "xe"? Instead of your awkward "they" shit. Btw your wiki article talks about it being common when the person is unknown, eg. "Somebody left their umbrella here".


    Jesus Christ can you not

    Just let it go, he answered.
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    thelovefist 7 hours ago#83
    butthole666 posted...
    They are nb


    Literally not a real thing, but thanks for finally responding.
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    treewojima 7 hours ago#84
    well this topic went well
    CatDog 7 hours ago#85
    lmao this topic was entertaining thanks everyone
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    CatDog posted...
    lmao this topic was entertaining thanks everyone
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    Konflikt 7 hours ago#87
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    I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.


    If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at all
    Nuffinz0rz 7 hours ago#88
    butthole666 posted...
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

    Enough. They are nb. Stop.

    Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?
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    thelovefist posted...
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    This 

    Great bait

    It seems this is the most likely conclusion at this point.


    That's all it takes, huh?
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    Axiom 6 hours ago#90
    Lol I love this topic
    LedZeppelin 5 hours ago#91
    Nuffinz0rz posted...
    butthole666 posted...
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

    Enough. They are nb. Stop.

    Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?

    i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary
    Vicious_Dios 5 hours ago#92
    OpShaft posted...
    CatDog posted...
    lmao this topic was entertaining thanks everyone
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    Hairy-man 5 hours ago#93
    What happened here
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    Muffinz0rz 5 hours ago#94
    LedZeppelin posted...
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    Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?

    i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary

    I mean I don't judge, it was just a curiosity question.
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    butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill5 hours ago#95
    LedZeppelin posted...
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    Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?

    i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary

    Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.
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    butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill5 hours ago#96
    Hairy-man posted...
    What happened here

    CE is full of garbage-ass manchildren
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    The Admiral 5 hours ago#97
    This was the transgender you were dating, right?
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    Muffinz0rz 5 hours ago#98
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    i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary

    Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.

    Are you gonna answer Nuffin's question?
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    cellb 5 hours ago#99
    Genocet_10-325 posted...
    TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC
    thelovefist 5 hours ago#100
    The Admiral posted...
    This was the transgender you were dating, right?

    TC said they are nb which I assumes means "non-binary"
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      butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill5 hours ago#101
      Muffinz0rz posted...
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      Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.

      Are you gonna answer Nuffin's question?

      I literally am not.
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      The Admiral 5 hours ago#102
      thelovefist posted...
      The Admiral posted...
      This was the transgender you were dating, right?

      TC said they are nb which I assumes means "non-binary"


      That's not a real thing.
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      butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill5 hours ago#103
      Fuck this
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      Muffinz0rz 5 hours ago#104
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      Are you gonna answer Nuffin's question?

      I literally am not.

      Why not? I'm not homophobic, I literally don't judge people for their sexual preferences. You can PM me if you like.
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      Nuffinz0rz 5 hours ago#106
      butthole666 posted...
      Because it's none of your fucking business what was in my ex's pants you cretin

      butthole666 posted...
      what was in my ex's pants

      butthole666 posted...
      was

      Hmmmm

      So something was once there, but said thing is no longer there.

      I think I get it. Thanks! Like I said, it was just curiosity, I don't judge. Now that I know, it doesn't change the story one bit.
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      LedZeppelin 5 hours ago#107
      butthole666 posted...
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      i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary

      Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.

      i’m not homophobic but thank you I believe that response confirms what i had been thinking
      The Admiral 5 hours ago#108
      Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship. 

      Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.
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      dolomedes 4 hours ago#109
      lmao jfc
      Shadowplay 4 hours ago#110
      The Admiral posted...
      Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship. 

      Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.

      Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.
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      Asherlee10 4 hours ago#111
      This topic... yeesh.
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      Sad_Face 4 hours ago#112
      The Admiral posted...
      This was the transgender you were dating, right?


      Now this explains everything. I TC's posts hard to read with all these unnecessary "they"s and as a result, it was difficult for me to read.
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      butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill4 hours ago#113
      Shadowplay posted...
      The Admiral posted...
      Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship. 

      Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.

      Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.

      But this totally isn't homophobia guys!
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      I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.


      If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at all


      Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.
      Shadowplay 4 hours ago#115
      butthole666 posted...
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      Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.

      But this totally isn't homophobia guys!

      No one said anything bad about gays whatsoever. Or transpeople. All the negative feedback you're getting is for buying into this ludicrous 50 gender nonsense.

      Why not just admit that you're bisexual?
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      butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill4 hours ago#116
      Shadowplay posted...
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      But this totally isn't homophobia guys!

      No one said anything bad about gays whatsoever. Or transpeople. All the negative feedback you're getting is for buying into this ludicrous 50 gender nonsense.

      Why not just admit that you're bisexual?

      Why are you assuming I'm not? Why are you assuming my ex has a penis? Why does either detail matter?

      This thread is fucking pathetic.
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      Lmao. This thread is the epitome of CE.
      10/10 topic. Would read again
      Konflikt 3 hours ago#119
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      If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at all


      Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.


      I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept

      like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TC
      OpShaft 3 hours ago#120
      I like knowing whether it's a he or a she to better understand the story. It's easier to picture in my head. Doesn't really matter, though.
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      Choco 3 hours ago#121
      i read the title as "I just woke up w my partner" and was like "aww :3"
      juicebox4 3 hours ago#122
      Asherlee10 posted...
      This topic...

      went STRAIGHT to hell
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      Choco 3 hours ago#123
      jesus christ ce

      i didn't even notice he used a gender-neutral pronoun

      why does it matter
      Axiom 3 hours ago#124
      OpShaft posted...
      Doesn't really matter, though.

      Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter

      And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects
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      GrandCross6 3 hours ago#125
      juicebox4 posted...
      Asherlee10 posted...
      This topic...

      went STRAIGHT to hell

      it did but while it was bad it was hilarious
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      juicebox4 3 hours ago#126
      Choco posted...
      jesus christ ce

      i didn't even notice he used a gender-neutral pronoun

      why does it matter

      I mean you're right, but on the other hand, the reason they're dragging it out so long is cuz TC is equally stubborn. like just confirm it was a girl already, why not? afaik you're straight tc, and it'll probably shut everyone up and re-rail the topic lol
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      The Admiral 3 hours ago#127
      Axiom posted...
      OpShaft posted...
      Doesn't really matter, though.

      Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter

      And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects


      That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares. 

      The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.
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      Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.


      I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept

      like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TC


      Lmao. Nobody talks that way about their significant other. It's hilarious. And I'm glad people said something about it because now this topic will go down in CE history.
      LedZeppelin 3 hours ago#129
      The Admiral posted...
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      Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter

      And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects


      That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares. 

      The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.

      thank you, 100% this. the way he went about it leads me to believe he was trolling from the start
      Konflikt 3 hours ago#130
      ChainedRedone posted...


      Lmao. Nobody talks that way about their significant other. It's hilarious. And I'm glad people said something about it because now this topic will go down in CE history.


      I mean it'll go down in "CE history" but not because of how TC acted. Y'all embarrassed yourselves big time
      Axiom 3 hours ago#131
      The Admiral posted...
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      Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter

      And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects


      That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares. 

      The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.

      FF_Redux is a well known poster and I was referring to the fact that his partner is nb. The moment that was mentioned the usual suspects IE you belittled him and his partner 

      Is it really so hard to have a little human decency. It doesn't matter what they consider themselves
      Evthean 3 hours ago#132
      i only read the first post, but it sounds like you made the right decision. the person you were with doesn’t sound like they were emotionally mature enough for a serious relationship. don’t sweat any shit talk that might come of it - from your post in this thread, it doesn’t seem like you did anything manipulative
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      thelovefist 3 hours ago#133
      Axiom posted...
      I was referring to the fact that his partner is nb


      That isn't a real thing
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      The Admiral 3 hours ago#135
      butthole666 posted...
      Admiral, fuck you, sincerely. I've been on this board for years and to this day I'm still consistently amazed by your disgusting conduct.


      I'm devastated, a guy with a username of butthole666 said "fuck you" to me. How will I sleep tonight?
      - The Admiral
      thelovefist 2 hours ago#136
      The Admiral posted...
      butthole666 posted...
      Admiral, fuck you, sincerely. I've been on this board for years and to this day I'm still consistently amazed by your disgusting conduct.


      I'm devastated, a guy with a username of butthole666 said "fuck you" to me. How will I sleep tonight?

      Lol

      Also, TC non-binary gender isn't a real thing. I'm not sure why you're taking this out on Admiral.
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      Konflikt 2 hours ago#137
      This topic isn't about whether or not you believe non-binary is a real thing
      thelovefist 2 hours ago#138
      Konflikt posted...
      This topic isn't about whether or not you believe non-binary is a real thing

      It appears it has taken that tagent
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      butthole666  self proclaimed mentally ill2 hours ago#139
      thelovefist posted...
      Konflikt posted...
      This topic isn't about whether or not you believe non-binary is a real thing

      It appears it has taken that tagent

      Yeah because you fucking kept on it
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      Konflikt 2 hours ago#140
      I guess I'm just not seeing why it's so hard to just ignore that piece of information and keep your beliefs to yourself because the situation doesn't call for it. And you can't say "well TC would've avoided this if he just said that in the first place" because now that its been revealed you guys are doing the exact shit he was trying to avoid.
      lmaooooo
      thelovefist 2 hours ago#142
      butthole666 posted...
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      It appears it has taken that tagent

      Yeah because you fucking kept on it

      You've brought it up far more often than I have said it isn't a real thing.
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      -Henri 2 hours ago#143
      I can't really tell who's trolling in this topic but either way it was funny as fuck lmaoooo
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      Omega Hunter 2 hours ago#145
      Genocet_10-325 posted...
      TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC


      God this is so entertaining.
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      Omega Hunter 2 hours ago#146
      The Admiral posted...
      butthole666 posted...
      Admiral, fuck you, sincerely. I've been on this board for years and to this day I'm still consistently amazed by your disgusting conduct.


      I'm devastated, a guy with a username of butthole666 said "fuck you" to me. How will I sleep tonight?


      I love admiral.

      I only agree with him 25% of the time but I love him nonetheless.
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      inTaCtfuL 2 hours ago#147
      Actually fuck my last post, skimmed the topic and saw that "they" is a non-binary person. I'm pretty ignorant on this subject but it's basically when someone doesn't identify themselves as male or female? Not gonna lie, never heard that in my life. But it's not my place to judge them (and it made sense why you kept saying "they")

      Anyways I'm sorry you went through that (and this topic)
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      LedZeppelin 2 hours ago#148
      well tc definitely lived up to his username itt
      TheGoldenEel 2 hours ago#149
      inTaCtfuL posted...
      Actually fuck my last post, skimmed the topic and saw that "they" is a non-binary person. I'm pretty ignorant on this subject but it's basically when someone doesn't identify themselves as male or female? Not gonna lie, never heard that in my life. But it's not my place to judge them (and it made sense why you kept saying "they")

      Anyways I'm sorry you went through that (and this topic)

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      Joenage 1 hour ago#150
      Konflikt posted...

      I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept

      like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TC

      Things first got weird when they were BLACKOUT drunk and started flirting w my best friend. As soon as they were reminded of this they left where they were and called me to come over & talk. Thought we worked it out but things have been weird since.

      They have also never had sex w anyone or hooked up in p much any capacity; the first time things escalated they asked when I had been last tested, told them I'm clean and I could get a condom anyway (this happened ONE other time where I suggested this half-seriously, then dropped it immediately), they insisted I get tested and I had no problem w that. Over several weeks this has still not happened for a variety of reasons, and that's apparently part of why they got "bitter" and flirted w my friend. Tonight, before I had broken up w them, they said my suggestion that I grab a condom was "manipulative", but did not seem intentional; I was extremely bothered that I had made someone feel this way and apologized profusely, they said it's okay i dont think youre a bad person etc etc.

      Then we talked in circles for a long time, with me explaining how deeply it hurt me several weeks ago and how im not in a place right now to be a healthy partner & how i dont want to risk "trying to fix it" because that almost always fails, esp this early on. This whole time their attitude was "if it doesn't work it doesn't work, you need to do what's best for you, etc". As soon as I made it clear that I wanted to call it off, this shifted to "disappointed" and "wasted time".


      If this was said in a real-life conversation amongst normal friends, the listeners would definitely think 'wow that's phrased a little oddly'. There's no denying that.
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