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Harpie posted...
You could at least have the decency to wait, out of repsect for both your ex and the new girl He's trying to live his life. He did the decent thing by not going on the date before dumping his ex.
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Veggeta X posted...
And story time, TC. What happened? Why'd you dump her? How did you find someone so quick? We had just gotten back together and I wasn't feeling it. Met this new girl I clicked with, but my ex hates me now and is torn apart and I feel awful because I do love her.
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Harpie posted...
You could at least have the decency to wait, out of repsect for both your ex and the new girl Well when this happens, Harpie, it means they are flirting and beginning to establish a relationship before they break up. It gives them something to fall back on. So now she gets to be hurt and lonely and he had nothing to lose because he has another girl already there for him. Oh but this topic is meant to be us comforting TC or praising him because CE probably think she he is legendary because he had that power over a woman. That's just the place this is isn't it?
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Veggeta X posted...
And story time, TC. What happened? Why'd you dump her? How did you find someone so quick? this but also good on you. It can be hard af to dump someone. Even after you realize you don't wanna be with someone anymore, you still care for them by nature of being so close with them. You just gotta keep your mind occupied for a while while you get over it. |
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lilORANG posted...
Veggeta X posted...And story time, TC. What happened? Why'd you dump her? How did you find someone so quick? See @Harpie what I just said happening already? Heh~ I wonder if I'm smarter than CE or if you're just that predictable! Ooh it's an interesting question at least huh? Hehe!!
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LittleRoyal posted...
Harpie posted...You could at least have the decency to wait, out of repsect for both your ex and the new girl That is why I feel awful.
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LittleRoyal posted...
lilORANG posted...Veggeta X posted...And story time, TC. What happened? Why'd you dump her? How did you find someone so quick? I think both tbh. You're just that good :p Also imagine if it was the other way around. The girl would be called a nasty slut, whore and horrible person for moving on so quickly
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Harpie posted...
LittleRoyal posted...lilORANG posted...Veggeta X posted...And story time, TC. What happened? Why'd you dump her? How did you find someone so quick? Yup. Ugh if topics archived here I could show the same thing. CE called me a whore for walking out on my then bf when he corenered me and started grabbing all my stuffs despite me telling him I don't want sex. So I walked out and never said anything to him and avoided him as much as I could. And CE insulted me pretty badly.
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Dragonblade01 posted...
Why is it a big deal if some people move on quickly? It's not moving on quickly. He formed this relationship with the other girl while dating her, he left his gf because he wanted to be with the other girl more. He didn't ever grieve of feel alone she is the one hurting because he established a relationship while he was supposed to be exclusive with her. Vermander posted... She is cry begging for me not to go, what do I do? Actually you should just stay out of her life forever and leave her alone to find someone much much better than you. At this point you've hurt her and if you ever talk to her again, it'll only bring those feelings up and make her want to back. You're officially poison to her even if she doesn't know yet. I'm sure her friends are telling you. Someday she will learn and she will most likely delete your name from her contacts and do her best to never think of you again, until she is telling her husband stories of worse bf's/lovers
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LittleRoyal posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...Why is it a big deal if some people move on quickly? Better than me as in I am a s***ty person? Like I don't deserve her?
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Well my mom and I think a lot of women tell their husbands about "worse bf and worse lover"
I imagine it's "this is how he hurt me this is why I cut him out" But uhh. I also know girls talk about their penises. My friend told me all about her exes penis and said he is really bad st sex and I didn't care but I let her vent
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LittleRoyal posted...
Basically "wait for me, be ready when I want you to, I'm gonna go f*** other girls because I'm not ready to only have one sex partner yet" I'm definitely not going to bang this other girl tomorrow, its only our second date. Its FOMO honestly.
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Vermander posted...
Basically I told my ex and I still love her. She has been the only person I have ever seriously dated, and if I get back with her, I want to know for 100% sure I want her and only her for the rest of my life. lmao why the f*** would she bother getting back with you?
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shockthemonkey posted...
Vermander posted...Basically I told my ex and I still love her. She has been the only person I have ever seriously dated, and if I get back with her, I want to know for 100% sure I want her and only her for the rest of my life. She loves me that much. Of course I know this board truly believes that I deserve to be alone if this new thing doesn't work out. Its absolutely hysterical too because its the same board who calls her an abusive giga-landwahle who abuses me.
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Vermander posted...
shockthemonkey posted...Vermander posted...Basically I told my ex and I still love her. She has been the only person I have ever seriously dated, and if I get back with her, I want to know for 100% sure I want her and only her for the rest of my life. Oh you're that f***ing guy. Welp, if you two enjoy being in an abusive relationship together than who am I to tell you that you're both dumb as hell for wanting such a s***ty thing?
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Vermander posted...
Date with new girl tomorrow. you should. |
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shockthemonkey posted...
Vermander posted...shockthemonkey posted...Vermander posted...Basically I told my ex and I still love her. She has been the only person I have ever seriously dated, and if I get back with her, I want to know for 100% sure I want her and only her for the rest of my life. Now that you remember who I am, do you still blame me for how I feel?
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LittleRoyal posted...Basically "wait for me, be ready when I want you to, I'm gonna go f*** other girls because I'm not ready to only have one sex partner yet" Yeah that's the same idea. You are being with other girls so you grt to get these expiriences and see what it's like while expecting her to sit there. Maybe not but it's what you said when you say "I just want to be sure" Hopefully she never thinks of you again until she is telling people bad dating stories. It hurt when I broke up with my bf's or they broke up with me, even if they're a******s, but now it's just stories of awful guys I can tell without caring where they are in life; I honestly hope she can move on and stop caring about you.
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Surprised CE doesn't realize what this guy has been through with his "ex"
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Vermander posted...
shockthemonkey posted...Vermander posted...shockthemonkey posted...Vermander posted...Basically I told my ex and I still love her. She has been the only person I have ever seriously dated, and if I get back with her, I want to know for 100% sure I want her and only her for the rest of my life. I don't know or really care how you feel. You're both stupid if you keep hurting each other and getting/staying together.
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Vermander posted...
wufei8706 posted...Surprised CE doesn't realize what this guy has been through with his "ex" Exactly. I'm happy for you! Hope things get better man. |
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wufei8706 posted...
Vermander posted...wufei8706 posted...Surprised CE doesn't realize what this guy has been through with his "ex" I just don't want to fall into the same loop.
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LittleRoyal posted...
Dragonblade01 posted...Why is it a big deal if some people move on quickly? If the relationship was already failing, then breaking up with someone to go out with a person you actually want to is perfectly fine. You say formed the relationship, but what do you actually mean? Did he form a romantic relationship during his time in a relationship that he new to be exclusive? Or does he even consider this situation with the new girl a romantic relationship at all? Nobody is required to spend time grieving or feeling alone after a breakup.
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Dragonblade01 posted...
LittleRoyal posted...Dragonblade01 posted...Why is it a big deal if some people move on quickly? There wasn't even a romantic relationship. She asked me out and I told her respectfully no necause I had a girlfriend, and she understood. Then my ex came over to my house and started screaming at me in me my own apartment about my shower. (There is more to this but Inwont get into it) and then flipped out and left. She got mad and said we are through, so I asked this new girl if she wanted to grab food when she got off work. So we got a sandwhich and talked.
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People don't just suddenly decide to have their second date. Tc said he is going on his second date with this woman and that he began to feel for her during his relationship.
So yes he was out establishing relationships Honestly this is why some girls don't let their boyfriends talk to other girls. A guy will meet a prettier girl or maybe a smarter girl or whatever your insecurity is, and he will dump you and leave for her in the same day, so yeah I'm not like that and I don't like when people are, but it's pretty understandable. And if you're a guy in a relationship and you have a female friend you don't wanna tell your gf about, then you're in the wrong already
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Finally. Well done. Your ex was and is toxic trash and you need to be far away from her as possible.
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LittleRoyal posted...
People don't just suddenly decide to have their second date. Tc said he is going on his second date with this woman and that he began to feel for her during his relationship. "Establishing relationships" is such vague phrasing that it's impossible to judge. Like, what "level of relationship" do you believe is acceptable for someone already in a relationship? And do you think that can change based on the nature of relationship they're already in? I mean, yeah, I understand why some women do that. Some men to. But that doesn't mean it's not an instant deal breaker if you're so insecure that your significant other even associating with the opposite sex is enough to set you off. Not to mention that it's pretty arguable whether "you're in the wrong" if you don't want to tell your significant other about something. That's the same logic people give when you won't let them have all the passwords and pins to all your accounts. At the very least you are making this topic appear way more black and white than it really is.
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ArtVandelay posted...
wufei8706 posted...Surprised CE doesn't realize what this guy has been through with his "ex" I'm not defending what people are saying she did not at all like I knew that. When I read about that, I backed off from TC's ex and that specific case But I'm talking now about why what he did is wrong~ it was still one thing to ever be with her after she is like that is that's his "fault" but I understand how abusive relationships can draw you in because it's not like I've never been there TCis beingweird tjough. Said he dumped her, then that she dumped him, said he wasn't establishing a relationship with new girl, now says is their second date.
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Dragonblade01 posted...
LittleRoyal posted...People don't just suddenly decide to have their second date. Tc said he is going on his second date with this woman and that he began to feel for her during his relationship. Lol asking someone you've been on a couple dates with for passwords is weird But if I do ask evenjokingly he could say "we aren't there yet" or something lol. One guy I was kinda into sort of turned me off to that relationshipbexause he got a panicked reaction and like10 minutes of swiping and tapping before giving me his phone and I was confused. But a bit suspicious lol Pointis why is it such a big deal? If your hiding that much from a gf uhh I'd rather not be that gf. Pins for credit card? That is like married couple not like dating. Maybe if you decide to both, but not like "we've been together a month give me your CC"
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If anybody out there is trying to dump their girlfriend but can't force themselves to do it, just listen to a ton of Bill Burr podcast stuff about 'cheating girlfriends' or whatever while downing a 6 pack. It'll, like, enrage you to a point where you just do it.
I don't really like to dispute facts, just rearrange them as necessary. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em.
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ArtVandelay posted...
LittleRoyal posted...TCis beingweird tjough. Said he dumped her, then that she dumped him, said he wasn't establishing a relationship with new girl, now says is their second date Yup. Is what all the topic involving her basically come down to. |
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Funkydog posted...
ArtVandelay posted...LittleRoyal posted...TCis beingweird tjough. Said he dumped her, then that she dumped him, said he wasn't establishing a relationship with new girl, now says is their second date I kinda ruined the date when I realized kissing her felt wrong.
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