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They did not seem to take it well, despite being the one that initiated a "breakup talk" (for the second time in a month)
Were saying how they were "disappointed" and felt like their time had been wasted I can't wait for all the shit this one's gonna talk :/
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sorry about that man. sounds like it might've been for the best though.
i remember you making topics about this before and i remember reading them but i can't remember the details. refresher? |
I'm sorry to hear that. Do you feel glad to have done it?
How quaint.
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sorry about that man. sounds like it might've been for the best though. Things first got weird when they were BLACKOUT drunk and started flirting w my best friend. As soon as they were reminded of this they left where they were and called me to come over & talk. Thought we worked it out but things have been weird since. They have also never had sex w anyone or hooked up in p much any capacity; the first time things escalated they asked when I had been last tested, told them I'm clean and I could get a condom anyway (this happened ONE other time where I suggested this half-seriously, then dropped it immediately), they insisted I get tested and I had no problem w that. Over several weeks this has still not happened for a variety of reasons, and that's apparently part of why they got "bitter" and flirted w my friend. Tonight, before I had broken up w them, they said my suggestion that I grab a condom was "manipulative", but did not seem intentional; I was extremely bothered that I had made someone feel this way and apologized profusely, they said it's okay i dont think youre a bad person etc etc. Then we talked in circles for a long time, with me explaining how deeply it hurt me several weeks ago and how im not in a place right now to be a healthy partner & how i dont want to risk "trying to fix it" because that almost always fails, esp this early on. This whole time their attitude was "if it doesn't work it doesn't work, you need to do what's best for you, etc". As soon as I made it clear that I wanted to call it off, this shifted to "disappointed" and "wasted time". I'm shook tbh
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yikes. tbh I almost called them on this when they changed their shit up so suddenly but I didn't want to make it worse This is a person I really like and want to be friends with, but it just wasn't working out romantically
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Vicious_Dios posted...muchdran posted...show hidden quote(s) No, I am not 5 years old. What a strange question.
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Vicious_Dios posted...Konflikt posted...show hidden quote(s) Me never hearing that does not correlate my age to be five years old.
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Vicious_Dios posted...Konflikt posted...show hidden quote(s) literally zero reason not to have used "she" tho.
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They don't know what they just lost from their life. They should probably have given their actions toward you further thought, but apparently they didn't care enough to. Their mistake and their loss, though. You should probably just forget about them and their negative attitude since they didn't seem to care until they took it to a point where they permanently damaged your relationship with them. You should forget about them and just move on.
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They don't know what they just lost from their life. They should probably have given their actions toward you further thought, but apparently they didn't care enough to. Their mistake and their loss, though. You should probably just forget about them and their negative attitude since they didn't seem to care until they took it to a point where they permanently damaged your relationship with them. You should forget about them and just move on. What about those?, you forgot about those! D:
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Vicious_Dios posted...Konflikt posted...show hidden quote(s) Not common enough if I've never heard nor seen it used day-by-day. LMAO
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tbh i'm primarily concerned that they will now try to paint me as some manipulative pos, when every step of the way i was constantly asking "is this okay?", "are you comfortable?", "do you want to do this?" manipulative people generally try to make you feel unsure of yourself then blame you for things later |
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butthole666 posted...tbh i'm primarily concerned that they will now try to paint me as some manipulative pos, when every step of the way i was constantly asking "is this okay?", "are you comfortable?", "do you want to do this?" I mean fwiw I do not think they are manipulative and I did not see this as a manipulative relationship on either end, that shit just caught me off guard because it was a thing of like "if you really want to right now, there's this option", and coupled with the rapid shift from bargaining to cold and seeming resentful, I'm worried
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I also feel really shit because I really fucking liked them and prior to the weirdness they were extremely supporting and understanding of my trauma & came from a similar place in life
I wish I could have made it work
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TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC Yeah im a troll for ignoring edgelord shitposters
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Genocet_10-325 posted...TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC
This
Great baitNot removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010)
2018 NFLB Summersim (2-3): https://i.imgur.com/7cjNtgQ.pngMuffinz0rz posted...Genocet_10-325 posted...
TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC
This
Great bait
Or that he's talking about a non-binary person and didn't want to acknowledge posters who were so sheltered they've never heard "they" to refer to a singular entitylesidesi posted...tc probably used "they" because the gender of tc's partner has no relevance to the story
lesidesi posted...imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you
Seriously. Can y'all just like make a separate thread for your stupid shit please."Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100slesidesi posted...imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you
I agree with this statement. However, TC's superfluous usage of the term combined with his refusal to respond to questions clarifying the matter can reasonably be concluded as him trolling.N/AKonflikt posted...Muffinz0rz posted...
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This
Great bait
Or that he's talking about a non-binary person and didn't want to acknowledge posters who were so sheltered they've never heard "they" to refer to a singular entity
Or
Muffinz0rz posted...Great bait
Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010)
2018 NFLB Summersim (2-3): https://i.imgur.com/7cjNtgQ.pngthelovefist posted...lesidesi posted...
imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you
I agree with this statement. However, TC's superfluous usage of the term combined with his refusal to respond to questions clarifying the matter can reasonably be concluded as him trolling.
How is it fucking superfluous you clown"Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sthelovefist posted...lesidesi posted...
imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you
I agree with this statement. However, TC's superfluous usage of the term combined with his refusal to respond to questions clarifying the matter can reasonably be concluded as him trolling.
why would tc need to clarify? what relevance does it have?If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the answers.lesidesi posted...thelovefist posted...
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I agree with this statement. However, TC's superfluous usage of the term combined with his refusal to respond to questions clarifying the matter can reasonably be concluded as him trolling.
why would tc need to clarify? what relevance does it have?
He doesn't need to clarify, but if you bothered to read the first part of the sentence you would understand why this makes sense.N/Athelovefist posted...lesidesi posted...
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why would tc need to clarify? what relevance does it have?
He doesn't need to clarify, but if you bothered to read the first part of the sentence you would understand why this makes sense.
I don't owe you shit, if you're that hot & bothered by this then fucking leave the thread."Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sKonflikt posted...Even if he clarified you guys would just bitch and throw a hissy-fit because you don't agree with the concept of non-binary gender identities. So what's the point?
I'm literally the most liberal poster on CE and I think he's trolling.No one triggers the Trumpanzees quite like you do - Bullet_Wing
Conservatism is a plague on society. Formerly known as The_Great_Geno.Konflikt posted...Even if he clarified you guys would just bitch and throw a hissy-fit because you don't agree with the concept of non-binary gender identities. So what's the point?
Most people don't agree with the concept of non-binary genders, so I am not sure what point you're trying to make here.N/Abutthole666 posted...thelovefist posted...
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He doesn't need to clarify, but if you bothered to read the first part of the sentence you would understand why this makes sense.
I don't owe you shit, if you're that hot & bothered by this then fucking leave the thread.
Yeah troll topic confirmed 100% at this point.N/AKonflikt posted...My point is that if he clarified you guys would all only read that bit and say "well you dodged a bullet because she's a wacko" and TC isn't trying to deal with that
If that's the case I think he would have been better off just responding to the questions and then dealing with that as opposed to this mess he's made now. Of course any person would understand this which makes this topic obviously trolling.N/Athelovefist posted...Konflikt posted...
My point is that if he clarified you guys would all only read that bit and say "well you dodged a bullet because she's a wacko" and TC isn't trying to deal with that
If that's the case I think he would have been better off just responding to the questions and then dealing with that as opposed to this mess he's made now. Of course any person would understand this which makes this topic obviously trolling.
Yeah I made the "mess" when you won't shut the fuck up about it
I've asked multiple times for you to stop or take it to another thread, just fucking stop"Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sI can't click anyone's imgur shit anymore it always says it contains errorsbutthole666 posted...thelovefist posted...
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If that's the case I think he would have been better off just responding to the questions and then dealing with that as opposed to this mess he's made now. Of course any person would understand this which makes this topic obviously trolling.
Yeah I made the "mess" when you won't shut the fuck up about it
I've asked multiple times for you to stop or take it to another thread, just fucking stop
Why are you using Rika's gimmick?N/ALOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.David Mink. Hero.
https://c1.staticflickr.com/7/6043/6337878059_009dd4c4f3_z.jpgChainedRedone posted...LOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.
lesidesi posted...imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you
If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the answers.lesidesi posted...ChainedRedone posted...
LOL @ TCs pronouns. TC do you talk this awkwardly IRL too? Jesus Christ.
lesidesi posted...imagine being so insecure in your own gender identity that someone using "they" triggers you
I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.David Mink. Hero.
https://c1.staticflickr.com/7/6043/6337878059_009dd4c4f3_z.jpghttps://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
Enough. They are nb. Stop."Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sbutthole666 posted...https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
Enough. They are nb. Stop.
So then why don't you use "xe"? Instead of your awkward "they" shit. Btw your wiki article talks about it being common when the person is unknown, eg. "Somebody left their umbrella here".David Mink. Hero.
https://c1.staticflickr.com/7/6043/6337878059_009dd4c4f3_z.jpgChainedRedone posted...butthole666 posted...
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
Enough. They are nb. Stop.
So then why don't you use "xe"? Instead of your awkward "they" shit. Btw your wiki article talks about it being common when the person is unknown, eg. "Somebody left their umbrella here".
Jesus Christ can you not
Just let it go, he answered.PSN: helicene
Careful, Icarus.ChainedRedone posted...lesidesi posted...
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I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.
If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at allbutthole666 posted...https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
Enough. They are nb. Stop.
Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?"We moderate based on personal opinion and our current emotional state." -Tyrasibionthelovefist posted...Muffinz0rz posted...
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This
Great bait
It seems this is the most likely conclusion at this point.
That's all it takes, huh?Kill anyone who gets in the way... Actually nevermind that... JUST KILL EVERYONE! - Kyojiro Kagenuma - WoTS 2 PSN:kingmalakNuffinz0rz posted...butthole666 posted...
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
Enough. They are nb. Stop.
Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?
i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binaryLedZeppelin posted...Nuffinz0rz posted...
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Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?
i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary
I mean I don't judge, it was just a curiosity question.Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010)
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Unrelated question, does your (ex) partner have a penis or a vagina?
i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary
Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit."Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sbutthole666 posted...LedZeppelin posted...
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i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary
Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.
Are you gonna answer Nuffin's question?Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010)
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Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.
Are you gonna answer Nuffin's question?
I literally am not."Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sbutthole666 posted...Muffinz0rz posted...
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Are you gonna answer Nuffin's question?
I literally am not.
Why not? I'm not homophobic, I literally don't judge people for their sexual preferences. You can PM me if you like.Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010)
2018 NFLB Summersim (2-3): https://i.imgur.com/7cjNtgQ.pngbutthole666 posted...Because it's none of your fucking business what was in my ex's pants you cretin
butthole666 posted...what was in my ex's pants
butthole666 posted...was
Hmmmm
So something was once there, but said thing is no longer there.
I think I get it. Thanks! Like I said, it was just curiosity, I don't judge. Now that I know, it doesn't change the story one bit."We moderate based on personal opinion and our current emotional state." -Tyrasibionbutthole666 posted...LedZeppelin posted...
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i have my suspicions given how hard it was for tc just to admit “they” were non-binary
Your "suspicions"? The fuck? Fuck off with this thinly veiled homophobic shit.
i’m not homophobic but thank you I believe that response confirms what i had been thinkingAnyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship.
Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.- The AdmiralThe Admiral posted...Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship.
Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.
Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.I make a topic in Final Fantasy 12 to ask if Tifa! They said no Tifa. Hardness gone!-gandobShadowplay posted...The Admiral posted...
Anyway, nothing really shocking here. Someone unstable/narcissistic to identity as "non-binary" obviously has other personal issues that aren't going to translate well into a healthy relationship.
Don't know how old this person was, but adults clinging to snowflake labels like that very clearly have problems.
Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.
But this totally isn't homophobia guys!"Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sKonflikt posted...ChainedRedone posted...
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I don't give a shit about gender identity. It sounds awkward because it's improper English and literally no educated person talks that way. It's actually quite funny.
If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at all
Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.David Mink. Hero.
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Damn straight. And everyone should know that if you have to ask about someone's genitalia, then that person has a penis. And chances are the TC has done things with said penis.
But this totally isn't homophobia guys!
No one said anything bad about gays whatsoever. Or transpeople. All the negative feedback you're getting is for buying into this ludicrous 50 gender nonsense.
Why not just admit that you're bisexual?I make a topic in Final Fantasy 12 to ask if Tifa! They said no Tifa. Hardness gone!-gandobShadowplay posted...butthole666 posted...
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But this totally isn't homophobia guys!
No one said anything bad about gays whatsoever. Or transpeople. All the negative feedback you're getting is for buying into this ludicrous 50 gender nonsense.
Why not just admit that you're bisexual?
Why are you assuming I'm not? Why are you assuming my ex has a penis? Why does either detail matter?
This thread is fucking pathetic."Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100sLmao. This thread is the epitome of CE.David Mink. Hero.
https://c1.staticflickr.com/7/6043/6337878059_009dd4c4f3_z.jpgChainedRedone posted...Konflikt posted...
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If you've never heard someone use "they" to refer to a single person you probably don't leave the house at all
Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.
I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept
like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TCi read the title as "I just woke up w my partner" and was like "aww :3"jesus christ ce
i didn't even notice he used a gender-neutral pronoun
why does it matterOpShaft posted...Doesn't really matter, though.
Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter
And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspectsChoco posted...jesus christ ce
i didn't even notice he used a gender-neutral pronoun
why does it matter
I mean you're right, but on the other hand, the reason they're dragging it out so long is cuz TC is equally stubborn. like just confirm it was a girl already, why not? afaik you're straight tc, and it'll probably shut everyone up and re-rail the topic lol*Ding dong, bing bong*
GABBA GABBA HEYAxiom posted...OpShaft posted...
Doesn't really matter, though.
Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter
And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects
That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares.
The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.- The AdmiralKonflikt posted...ChainedRedone posted...
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Nobody constantly refers to a specific, known person as "they". Leads me to think you have no social interaction if you didn't find the OP awkward.
I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept
like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TC
Lmao. Nobody talks that way about their significant other. It's hilarious. And I'm glad people said something about it because now this topic will go down in CE history.David Mink. Hero.
https://c1.staticflickr.com/7/6043/6337878059_009dd4c4f3_z.jpgThe Admiral posted...Axiom posted...
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Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter
And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects
That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares.
The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.
thank you, 100% this. the way he went about it leads me to believe he was trolling from the startChainedRedone posted...
Lmao. Nobody talks that way about their significant other. It's hilarious. And I'm glad people said something about it because now this topic will go down in CE history.
I mean it'll go down in "CE history" but not because of how TC acted. Y'all embarrassed yourselves big timeThe Admiral posted...Axiom posted...
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Exactly. It's dumb that people can't make a topic on this board about relationships or sex without someone questioning what they are. Literally any topic that has some TC relaying a story about sex with a guy is gauranteed to have a "Are you a girl" post when it doesn't even matter
And it's really no surprise TC didn't want to say given the reactions of usual suspects
That FF_Redux guys makes topics almost everyday about his gay relationships and no one here cares.
The TC brought this on himself by using "they" and then stubbornly refusing to reveal the person's gender. If TC had just said he was dating a biological dude in the first post, no one would have cared or given him a hard time.
FF_Redux is a well known poster and I was referring to the fact that his partner is nb. The moment that was mentioned the usual suspects IE you belittled him and his partner
Is it really so hard to have a little human decency. It doesn't matter what they consider themselvesi only read the first post, but it sounds like you made the right decision. the person you were with doesn’t sound like they were emotionally mature enough for a serious relationship. don’t sweat any shit talk that might come of it - from your post in this thread, it doesn’t seem like you did anything manipulativeCogito Ergo CogitoThe Admiral posted...butthole666 posted...
Admiral, fuck you, sincerely. I've been on this board for years and to this day I'm still consistently amazed by your disgusting conduct.
I'm devastated, a guy with a username of butthole666 said "fuck you" to me. How will I sleep tonight?
Lol
Also, TC non-binary gender isn't a real thing. I'm not sure why you're taking this out on Admiral.N/AI guess I'm just not seeing why it's so hard to just ignore that piece of information and keep your beliefs to yourself because the situation doesn't call for it. And you can't say "well TC would've avoided this if he just said that in the first place" because now that its been revealed you guys are doing the exact shit he was trying to avoid.butthole666 posted...thelovefist posted...
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It appears it has taken that tagent
Yeah because you fucking kept on it
You've brought it up far more often than I have said it isn't a real thing.N/AGenocet_10-325 posted...TC is obviously trolling. Keeps using "they" as much as possible to rustle people's jimmies and refusing to acknowledge any questions about it. Bravo TC
God this is so entertaining.Living is naturally hell, you have to work to put a smile on.
http://images.complex.com/complex/image/upload/7_ugmpjq.gifThe Admiral posted...butthole666 posted...
Admiral, fuck you, sincerely. I've been on this board for years and to this day I'm still consistently amazed by your disgusting conduct.
I'm devastated, a guy with a username of butthole666 said "fuck you" to me. How will I sleep tonight?
I love admiral.
I only agree with him 25% of the time but I love him nonetheless.Living is naturally hell, you have to work to put a smile on.
http://images.complex.com/complex/image/upload/7_ugmpjq.gifActually fuck my last post, skimmed the topic and saw that "they" is a non-binary person. I'm pretty ignorant on this subject but it's basically when someone doesn't identify themselves as male or female? Not gonna lie, never heard that in my life. But it's not my place to judge them (and it made sense why you kept saying "they")
Anyways I'm sorry you went through that (and this topic)i7-3970X Extreme ~ Asus Rampage IV Extreme ~ 32 GB DDR3-2133 ~ 10 TB 7200RPM ~ 500 GB SSD ~ 690 x2 ~ 1200 W PSU Gold ~inTaCtfuL posted...Actually fuck my last post, skimmed the topic and saw that "they" is a non-binary person. I'm pretty ignorant on this subject but it's basically when someone doesn't identify themselves as male or female? Not gonna lie, never heard that in my life. But it's not my place to judge them (and it made sense why you kept saying "they")
Anyways I'm sorry you went through that (and this topic)
Generally it’s someone who puts so much importance on gender stereotypes that they think they’re neither man nor woman because they don’t like sports OR shoppingThe words of The Golden Eel have been revealed...
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I didn't find the OP awkward because I'm not pedantic and socially inept
like y'all are literally freaking out in a topic about a breakup and tactlessly getting hung up on a dumb word because you don't believe in something rather than just ignoring it. You guys evidently have more issues than the person TC was dating and I was just criticizing them for how they treated TCThings first got weird when they were BLACKOUT drunk and started flirting w my best friend. As soon as they were reminded of this they left where they were and called me to come over & talk. Thought we worked it out but things have been weird since.
They have also never had sex w anyone or hooked up in p much any capacity; the first time things escalated they asked when I had been last tested, told them I'm clean and I could get a condom anyway (this happened ONE other time where I suggested this half-seriously, then dropped it immediately), they insisted I get tested and I had no problem w that. Over several weeks this has still not happened for a variety of reasons, and that's apparently part of why they got "bitter" and flirted w my friend. Tonight, before I had broken up w them, they said my suggestion that I grab a condom was "manipulative", but did not seem intentional; I was extremely bothered that I had made someone feel this way and apologized profusely, they said it's okay i dont think youre a bad person etc etc.
Then we talked in circles for a long time, with me explaining how deeply it hurt me several weeks ago and how im not in a place right now to be a healthy partner & how i dont want to risk "trying to fix it" because that almost always fails, esp this early on. This whole time their attitude was "if it doesn't work it doesn't work, you need to do what's best for you, etc". As soon as I made it clear that I wanted to call it off, this shifted to "disappointed" and "wasted time".
If this was said in a real-life conversation amongst normal friends, the listeners would definitely think 'wow that's phrased a little oddly'. There's no denying that.Joenage.- Boards
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