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So, I met this girl in my class back in September and it went from getting her Instagram the second time we spoke after class, to her eventually giving me her number and us going out a few times (we smashed after the first date and I now wish she wasn’t my first). She told me she didn’t want anything serious on our first date and needed to focus on herself, especially since she had a nasty breakup with her ex the week before we met (should’ve been a red flag for me but whatever). Unfortunately, I sorta caught feelings for her and tried to hide it but I think I failed a little.
So, on Saturday, we didn’t speak much and I didn’t hear from her till Monday. I got a Snapchat notification from her and I was like “I’m surprised she hit me up on this instead of texting me, but whatever.” Her messsge read, “I got back with my ex. I hope this doesn’t make things weird between us.” I was buying a soda from this vending machine at the time and almost punched the vending machine. I lied and told her “I mean, we weren’t really together, so no worries.” She replied “Ok, thank you” and I didn’t respond to her. What got me upset was the fact that she went back to her ex after telling me she didn’t want anything serious and I swear she told me he thought her whole thing with going to school was too “intense” for him (he doesn’t attend college, I have no idea what he does for a living) and how they had a nasty breakup. Also, either she or he took down our photos from Facebook from our outing for Halloween (noticed they were gone when I was on my page and saw they were no longer in my recent photos). Nobody just gets back with their ex after a “nasty breakup” within two days. What are your thoughts on this whole situation?
In God I trust.
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You were just the rebound guy and she obviously was always still wanting to be in a real relationship with her ex. If you play it cool, she will come back when they break up again
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EzeDoesIt posted...
ugh that’s annoying. i’m sure she has her reasons but man so many just don’t consider other people’s feelings in this situation. you’re better off without her though, she sounds like an ass (at least in terms of trying to develop anything serious with her). Wish I knew what those reasons were. I was speaking to some of my friends about it to get some insight and one of them (who I only know via social media, met via one of those random video chat services) said it might be one of those cases where they had a toxic relationship and she keeps going back, mostly because it’s a familiar thing and she might not want to go into a new thing and have her feelings hurt or some ish like that. I took that into consideration. I haven’t spoken to her since and we have class together three days a week. She usually sits next to me but yesterday (Thank God), she sat on the other side of the lecture room and I was sitting with two of my friends. My friend said she caught her looking our way once. Things may or may not be awkward when we have this component to our lecture tomorrow, since we both usually sit next to each other in the front of the class and the room is much smaller than the lecture room.
In God I trust.
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GasMonkey posted...
she told you straight up at the beginning. this is on you. How are you going to call someone bro and insult them at the same time? Thanks for your comment anyway, guy.
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Gamerguy92 posted...
GasMonkey posted...she told you straight up at the beginning. this is on you. That happens regularly.
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Gamerguy92 posted...
solosnake posted...You were just the rebound guy and she obviously was always still wanting to be in a real relationship with her ex. If you play it cool, she will come back when they break up again Yeah no going back, you get it. Some people have no dignity |
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EliteC posted...
Gamerguy92 posted...solosnake posted...show hidden quote(s) Its casual sex.
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Nobody just gets back with their ex after a “nasty breakup” within two days. What are your thoughts on this whole situation?
Uh, yes they do. All the time. Are you new at this?
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The main point is, how do you tell someone you don’t want something serious, but go back to something that was serious and isn’t beneficial to you, from what you told me? That just doesn’t make any sense to me, but I wish her the best. Also, just to clarify, isn’t an incel someone who believes they can never get sex and blame women for everything (which I don’t believe in either)?
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When I said two days, I meant two days of conversation, after a nasty breakup that occurred almost three months ago, but I guess I was wrong. I guess she didn’t really do anything wrong but it just feels messed up, in my opinion, to say one thing to someone and then do the opposite.
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